Sprinkin Sprinks, Like a Boss

I realized something today that I've been denying for ages:  I use my degree in the job I have.

That's kind of a big deal.  You see, I got the degree with the full understanding that I would not ever go directly into the field of Sociology.  I didn't want to, I knew I'd hate it.  Academia is one of my least favorite places.  The pretentious, bullshit, know-it-all attitude drives me crazy.  I always enjoyed the real conversations, which only a few teaches were ever to accomplish, but I couldn't help but be repulsed by just how much jargon was used and ill-defined concepts accepted as reality.  I fell into the trap of it at first, but slowly, as I partied and lived in the real world, I came to the realization that none of it would ever benefit me there.  The jargon, not the lessons.

I had an undeclared concentration within Sociology that deeply affected the way I treat the people around me: Gender, sexuality, and queer studies.

I did it mostly to question things I held true, to go deeper into myself so to speak.  I did not do it because I thought in some way it would decide my career path.  It was a selfish degree, which I'm sure is why I minored in Psychology.  College was one huge journey of self exploration.  I think it is that for a lot of people, I just happened to use my classes to do it for me.  The things I discovered could fill a book, so I'm not gonna detail them here.  I will say that I learned to look beneath the surface of a person, I learned the skill of social analysis and the analysis of personalities.  I learned to question my own motives, reactions, and actions.  Basically, I learned  how people work, and how we all interact with each other.

I did not learn business.

I did not learn management.

But I sure did learn people.

People are the key to any good business.  A person with ability to clearly communicate to any number of different people in their individual style is a good person.  I learned how to do that in college.  It's literally something I learned in classes that I took to earn a degree.  It makes me feel like those four (and a half) years weren't quite so wasted.

So now when people ask me, "What do you do with a degree in Sociology?"  Instead of nervously laughing and joking, "You work at a donut shop."  I can lift me head proudly and say with honesty, "You work at a donut shop."



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