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Why asking for help is the best thing you can learn to do

So, if you've ever read this blog, you get that I have one or two mental illnesses.  I don't try to hide it, even though it feels shameful sometimes.  More accurately, it always feels shameful.  Its something as a society we try to hide from one another, and when its brought into the open its uncomfortable for just about everyone involved. I don't like that mindset, so I tend to be obnoxiously open about it.  I don't hide it and I don't pretend it isn't real, even when I want to.  Its difficult sometimes, and it makes for awkward social interactions on a pretty regular basis.  The shameful stigma surrounding mental health is a problem though, one I combat whenever I can.  So this means that I tell people things like, "I'm in a state of depression and its really difficult for me.  I'm dealing with it, but its not easy.  Please be patient with me."  Or even, "I've been behaving poorly lately and I know it.  I want to apologize and e...